Always Stay Humble and Kind

Dear Family & Friends,

It’s that time of year again, when I reflect on all the things I have to be grateful for, particularly as I celebrate another year of being a cancer survivor. Tomorrow, November 25, marks the two year anniversary of my second diagnosis.

While 2015 was a year a physical challenges with tough treatments and frequent travel, 2016 proved to be far more difficult mentally. I started the year with a six month break in treatment. For a while there, I forgot I was even sick. With this break from doctor’s visits, needles and scans, I was able to reflect more on this journey I’m on. It’s still a lot to take in.

My perception of what really matters in life has changed. And my relationships continued to deepen with those I love. As always, Nick and Alice are my rocks. We kept very busy this year. We moved into our new home in February. We enjoyed a visit from his parents in May. We traveled to Seattle, Minneapolis, D.C., England and Ireland. I climbed my first 14’er! And we welcomed another nephew into our family.

In June, I made the choice at work to step down from management and go to four days a week. I needed a day to myself to take care of me and reflect on all that I am going through. A couple days later, tumor growth landed me in my third clinical trial at the University of Colorado.

I ended up losing my hair and several men in my life shaved their heads with me including my brothers, Chris and Paul, my brother-in-law Martyn, my father-in-law Jim, my dad, my sweet husband and my darling nephew Tommy.

Having a physical sign of cancer sure changed the way I went through my days and interacted with others. Cancer continues to teach me lessons in humility. I’m now off that treatment and sporting the pixie cut I always wanted to try but never dared.

Just like last year (and always), Tim McGraw spoke to me in one of his songs: Always Be Humble and Kind.

Hold the door, say “please”, say “thank you”
Don’t steal, don’t cheat, and don’t lie
I know you got mountains to climb
But always stay humble and kind

Don’t take for granted the love this life gives you
When you get where you’re going don’t forget turn back around
And help the next one in line
Always stay humble and kind

Thank you all for your continued prayers and support during this marathon of a fight. Hug your loved ones extra tight this holiday season. Be grateful for all that you have, especially your health. And LOVE THIS LIFE.

All of My Love,

_katie